Is the Twin Flame Journey a Curse or a Blessing
This blog post was inspired by a video I watched yesterday. It talked about how some twin flames complain about the journey, how hard it is, how they would not wish it upon anyone they know and how it can feel almost like a curse.
So, I wanted to share my thoughts with you. Is the Twin Flame Journey a curse or a blessing?
Curse or Blessing? What Is the Twin Flame Journey About?
The twin flame journey is a path of growth and evolution. It is a transformational path.
You have to shed your old self, rewire your mind and become a better version of yourself, the version you came here to be, so that you can better serve your soul’s purpose.
It is a path towards becoming who you came here to be.
And like any journey or path that leads to transformation, it is not easy.
Yes, it is hard. At times, it can feel excruciating, even to the point of exhaustion. It entails a lot of pain, crying and sleepless nights.
At times, you may feel completely alone, as though nobody can understand what you are going through. Sometimes, it feels like abandonment. Sometimes, it feels as though the universe is asking too much of you.
And it is.
But your soul chose this path. And if your soul chose it, then you can do it.
Not only can you do it, but you are compelled to do it. In other words, there is no other way. You cannot avoid it. You cannot deviate from it, not anymore, because your whole life has been a deviation, and now it is time to do the work. The real work.
Healing the Wounds
It is similar to going to therapy. Therapy is not easy. If you have ever been to therapy, you already know that.
It is about digging into the wounds before they can be healed.
Trauma is not simply about a wound. It is about a wound that was not properly taken care of.
The twin flame journey brings all those wounds to the surface so that they can finally heal. It asks you to shed your old self, rewire your mind and become who you came here to be.
That cannot be easy, can it?
Yes, it happens through pain and tears.
However, if pain and tears are the only things you can see in this journey, then perhaps you are not on the journey or you are still in its early stages. Or perhaps you need to begin shifting your perspective.
Pain and tears are one extreme. Pleasure and happiness exist at the other.
Changing Your Frequency
What the journey is asking you to do is change your vibration.
You can think of these experiences as two sides of the same coin, as two extremes or as different frequencies.
This is the frequency of happiness, and this is the frequency of sorrow. This is the frequency of pain, and this is the frequency of pleasure.
The journey is asking you to change your frequency.
If you have not done so yet, you may still be in the early stages of the journey. You need to be patient with yourself and with your divine counterpart, because they are going through their own healing as well.
They may have chosen a different road, but that road is also difficult; and they are still on the path, they can't escape it either.
Both paths lead towards the same result: transformation and becoming who we came here to be.
So, is the twin flame journey a curse?
It is as much a curse as it is a blessing.
Is it all about pain?
It is as much about pain as it is about pleasure.
Is it all about sorrow?
It is as much about sorrow as it is about joy.
What Was Your Life Like Before Meeting Your Twin Flame?
I would also like you to think about one more thing.
What was your life like before encountering your Divine Masculine or Divine Feminine? Was it easy?
Because in my case, it was not.
After I encountered my Divine Masculine and some time had passed - I gradually began to understand what I was going through, t took time to truly grasp it - but when I eventually did, I saw my whole previous life differently.
I realised that everything I had experienced before meeting my Divine Masculine had been test after test after test, tests of showing up, enduring and moving through hardship.
Otherwise, I would not have been able to endure this journey.
Because yes, working with ourselves is that hard.
The Journey Is Always About You
The twin flame journey is never truly about the other person.
Twin flames share the same soul, so union already exists in the 5D. But every individual path is about the self.
It is never about the other person. The other person can only be your mirror.
And this does not happen only with twin flames. It happens in every interaction and every relationship we have, whether professional, friendly or intimate.
So, think about it.
Was your life easy before encountering your Divine Masculine or Divine Feminine?
Did you pass the tests?
You must have passed them. Otherwise, you would not have reached that point in time when divine timing allowed you to encounter your divine counterpart.
Does this make sense?
Let me know in the comments. I would also love to hear how the twin flame journey feels to you and what your life was like before meeting your Divine Masculine or Divine Feminine.
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